Tuesday, April 2, 2024
I was very sorry to hear of your Dad’s passing, Nancy. My deepest sympathies to your family. I know you have lots of amazing memories of your Dad, but I thought I might add one of my own.
As a kid, I had limited interactions with your father, which was primarily a quick, but respectful, “Hello Mr. Dykes” as we crossed paths in the kitchen. As a teenager, I found him, like all fathers of the era, very intimidating. I will never forget the day that instead of the usual “hello”, he stopped me and sat me down at your kitchen table, asking me to explain why I wanted to transfer from St. Pat’s to Northern High School.
I was so nervous talking to “ Mr. Dykes”, but I explained the best I could. He countered, but I persevered and was able to give a better account of my reasoning. He took a moment to pause, which felt like eternity, but was then satisfied with my explanation and sent us on our way.
Later I realized that because of that discussion and having to put my thoughts into words, I was confident that I was making the right decision for me. And instead of being a distant authority figure, I realized your Dad was kind and thoughtful, and I appreciated that he was always looking out for my best interests.
I’m sorry for your loss.
Jane
Funeral Establishment Operator Class 1 License FE-415
